Teaching children to not be exclusive is an important aspect in developing valuable friendships — and in learning to treat others the way we would like to be treated. Some of these steps may prevent your child from succumbing to a clique mentality:
1. Have your child invite someone new to his birthday party each year.
2. Discourage an attitude of superiority.
3. Read books that present the message that everyone is unique and has something valuable to offer.
4. Ask your child to reach out to a classmate who is playing alone at recess or eating by himself at lunch.
5. Help your child become involved in activities that promote teamwork.
