One fall day in 1975, Liane Day’s husband of 13 years left her. With two school-age children to support and only
one year of college, the new single mom suffered a nervous breakdown. But despite
the odds, the 55-year-old Atlanta native has raised her kids to love God. Christine
and Tom are now married with children of their own. They teach their kids the
lessons that Liane impressed on them. The process of spiritual mentoring, or
discipleship, has passed to the next generation.
God wants willing followers — not perfect ones.
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Parents bear the responsibility to nurture their children spiritually. Moses
instructed the Israelites to teach their offspring God’s laws at all times, “so
that you, your children and their children after them may fear the Lord your
God as long as you live” (Deuteronomy 6:2). Like Moses and Liane before
us, today’s single parents must answer the critical question: How can
I disciple my kids?
Be a Disciple
In order to teach our children how to be disciples, we must first model it for
them. As single moms and dads, we seek Him first, remain teachable in our actions
and worship Him with our lives. In Genesis 5, early heroes also model discipleship
principles for us. As we follow their example we are better equipped to show
our children what steps to take.
Modeling discipleship and godly living does not mean perfection. In fact, it
is humility and brokenness that sets us up for true relationship with God.
He wants willing followers—not perfect ones.
Pass it on
Once we are following God in our own lives, we will be better positioned to
pass on our faith. It will come naturally in the daily tasks of life. For example,
the more Liane began to grow, the more she used school and work situations,
relationship
issues and current events to point her children to the Bible. Over breakfast,
Liane memorized Scripture verses with her kids that she wrote on a blackboard
in the kitchen. When faced with their tough questions, Liane asked other believers
for answers. Church attendance was a given.
Another single parent gave "three cups of blessing" to his children
as a unique way to pass on his spiritual heritage while one single mom pushed
through her weariness and set up a formal schedule.
It is possible, even in the chaos of single parent life to pass on your spiritual
foundation to your children.