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Using Stories to Develop Character
How to Choose Good Stories
The bookstores and libraries are full of books for children — thousands
of them. But not all children’s books are created
equal. With so many choices, it’s hard to know where to begin.
Not all children’s books are created equal.
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are gems hidden in the discount rack and a few stinkers with the Newbery Medal
stamped on them. Whole books have been written about which books are worth reading
to your children. Bill Bennett’s anthology The Book of Virtues, Gladys Hunt’s
Honey for a Child’s Heart and Jim Trelease’s The Read-Aloud Handbook come to mind. Such collections are helpful, but knowing what to look for can expand
your selection even more, enabling you to create your own list of favorites.
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Avoid simplistic moralizations — Look for stories that show,
not tell. “C.S. Lewis said that no book is really worth reading at
the age of 10 which is not equally worth reading at the age of fifty,”
writes Gladys Hunt. “Children’s books cannot be written for
or down to children.… A good book has a profound kind of morality
— not a cheap sentimental sort which thrives on shallow plots and
superficial heroes, but the sort of force which inspires the reader’s
inner life and draws out all that is noble.”
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Beware of adaptations and retellings
— In the name of political correctness, new releases of old stories
are not always true to the original. When the Three Little Pigs all survive
by running to the home built of brick, the lesson of planning ahead and
heeding advice is blunted. In this age of political correctness, it’s
harder to find the original where the two pigs that took the easy route
become snack food for the hungry wolf. But it’s worth the effort.
Too often plots are altered to reflect modern sensitivities at the expense
of the story’s effectiveness.
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Keep it principled — Some stories give too much detail about
painful subjects, subjects a lot of kids wouldn’t necessarily encounter
in their everyday lives. Stories about divorce, child abuse, homosexuality
and other “hot topics” prematurely erode children’s innocence
about the world. Look for stories that focus on what it takes to overcome
crises, rather than those that dwell on the crises themselves.
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Avoid mere description — Some kids need books to survive.
For kids who have experienced such crises in their own lives, the last thing
they want to do is read books about how everyone else is equally oppressed.
It’s not enough to say life is hard. They need stories of survival
where characters persevere and overcome hardship.
Candice Z. Watters
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