At the end of a long, exhausting day full of real-life troubles, bedtime rituals
can offer comfort. Especially story time.
A good story with strong characters
and high morals can inspire both children and parents alike. Even the classics
are beneficial, where lazy pigs get eaten, boys who cry “wolf!”
are ignored and a rebellious gingerbread man meets his doom.
Such stories help children understand the importance of hard work, honesty
and discernment; in short, the reality of consequences. Through books, children
can learn what’s possible and hopefully some important lessons.
Recently our son Harrison started being less than forthright about things.
I reached for The Boy Who Cried Wolf to illustrate the importance of telling
the truth.
Yes, it was challenging to explain to a 4-year-old what happened to the little
boy when the wolf really showed up and no one came to his rescue. But if Harrison
can learn honesty by reading a story, even one that involves the demise of a
naughty trickster, how much better than having to experience that pain firsthand.
Some might argue that life’s scary enough without reading fanciful tales
of woe. I understand their concerns. I certainly don’t want to introduce
nightmares, filling my kids’ heads with endless warnings of what bad things
might happen.
But I do want them to understand human nature and develop
wisdom. And there are lots of books well suited to the task. Experts agree:
Reading is one of the best things you can do for your children. And what you
read matters.