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Building Memories in Your Single-Parent Family Home

Making Scents

A pleasant fragrance adds so much to a home environment. Not only do we, as parents, feel more comfortable in a home that smells good, it is also a memory-builder for our children. If there is a vanilla candle burning in our home when they walk in the door for their hugs, later on in life they will associate that scent with a feeling of security.

Terry Willits, an interior designer, suggests some of these other scent-makers in your home:


The scent of baking cookies can foster feelings of coziness and warmth.


Bake cookies. If you’re not big on recipes and ingredients, buy some slice-and-bake cookies and stick them in the oven on a Saturday afternoon. The smell of freshly baked cookies can become a warm and familiar scent.

Use an inexpensive lamp ring. Place the lamp ring on top of a light bulb and add a couple of drops of fragrant oil. The heat helps the fragrance fill the home. This is especially good for a parent with small children because lamp rings are safer than lighted candles.

Keep closets fresh as a forest. Use cedar wood hangers to hang outerwear in your coat closet. They will repel moths and mildew while pleasantly scenting your garments. For an extra whiff of fragrance, hide a cedar block on the top shelf of the closet.

Simmer a scent. Simmer apple cider with cinnamon sticks, cloves and orange peel for a spicy, fragrant beverage. If you don’t have cider on hand, use boiling water. Although you can’t drink it, the smell is just as enjoyable.

Share a cup and saucer of scent. Drop a scented votive candle in a pretty teacup. Place it on a saucer in a spot looking for a touch of fragrant charm.

Mist in menthol. For a menthol treat, tie a bouquet or wreath of eucalyptus to your shower head. Moisture from a steamy, hot shower will release its stimulating scent.

Sprinkle your sheets. Before turning in on a warm summer night, turn down your sheets and sprinkle them with a fragrant body talc. The perfumed powder will absorb moisture, delighting your nose while keeping your body dry.

— Peg Roen

— Peg Roen

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