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Summer Fun for Single-Parent Families

It’s summer, and your kids can’t wait to trade the rigors of everyday life for adventure. Are you looking for ways to take advantage of the summer months? Don’t wake up in September and wonder where the weeks have gone!

Make this time off from school a time on for creating lifetime memories. What will you do? Where will you go? And how will you afford any of it?


Create lifetime memories.


Within Your Grasp

No matter what your financial situation, a fabulous adventure can become a possible dream by keeping these steps in mind:

1. Brainstorm. Sit down with your kids and list parts of the country you want to see. Don’t shoot down any ideas, make it a dreaming session.

2. Get materials. Go to your favorite search engine and plug in the state you would like information on. The main tourist site should list first. Have the kids help put in your name and address, request brochures and then start checking your mailbox.

3. Find low-budget lodging. The International/American Youth Hostels have bargain-basement prices for dorm arrangements and private rooms, both nationally and internationally.

4. Barter your talents. If you’re a writer, ask hotels, airlines, resorts or theme parks about creating a news or magazine article in exchange for reduced rates or complimentary services. If you’re an expert in fields such as real estate, cooking, money management or decorating, offer your speaking services to a resort or cruise ship entertainment director. Maybe you can get a free or discounted vacation for your family.

5. Travel with another adult. It’s cheaper to rent a whole beach house and split the cost than to pay for daily motel rates. If you can’t find a traveling companion, challenge places with “rates based on double occupancy,” as this policy penalizes single parents.

6. Check out cheap getaways. Local parks and recreation departments often offer inexpensive adventures for the whole family. Investigate deals through your church, school or any organization to which you belong. If you’re a city dweller, ask travel agents, county chambers or farm cooperatives about spending your vacation on a farm in exchange for picking vegetables and milking cows.

7. Volunteer as a chaperone. Is your son in scouting? Offer to be a group leader for an excursion to the beach or mountains.

8. Take mini-vacations. Visit museums, art galleries, parks and other attractions within a few hours’ drive. Go canoeing or check out some colleges you or your child are considering.

9. Set goals for next year. What do your kids want to be good at a year from now? Investigate camps that will help your child learn a new skill.

10. Keep your mind active. Frequent the library. Books can help you travel through history and into the future.

Go for It

Youth should be enjoyed, and your children will grow up before you know it. Like this single-parent family, take advantage of opportunities to give your children lots of good experiences. Even if you can’t travel, there are other ways to enjoy cheap summer fun. If you have to work through most of the summer months, try some creative daycare options. Whatever you do, teach your children to laugh and enjoy their summer — with and without you!

— Charles Ross

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