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The Family Media Guardian

Video Games

For Christmas 2002, over one-third of Americans expected to give or receive video games as a gift. In the same time period, Grand Theft Auto: Vice City sold a record-breaking 1.4 million copies.

Why is this troubling? The player can commit all kinds of crimes ranging from theft to having sex with a prostitute, all in first person. You may be tempted to think, It’s just a game. Really? A mom on a call-in radio talk show said her 4-year-old son had been playing GTA, and later when they were following a slow driver, he piped up, “Aw mom, just run him off the road.”

Clearly, most video games are not as troublesome as GTA. But all deserve the attention of the family media guardian before becoming a part of your child’s game collection. How can parents be sure their child’s video games are okay? Most of us can’t play each one (in fact, the very thought makes the less coordinated break out in a cold sweat). Here are some tips:

  • Check it out before buying. Rent or borrow from a friend. If you’re not a player, sit with your child through a few sessions and make sure there’s nothing objectionable.
  • Consider the genre and rating. Is it a first-person shooter or role-playing game? Rated E for Everybody, T for Teen, M for Mature?
  • Limit playing time, as you would with any other “screen” activity. Ask yourself if your child’s behavior has changed as a result of playing video games. Is he forsaking other enjoyable activities in order to play? Is he becoming isolated? Does he talk nonstop about playing videos?
  • Try to find multi-player games that you can enjoy together with your child.
  • Check reviews. Al Menconi Ministries offers a free, growing list of video game reviews from a Christian perspective. Rotten Tomatoes offers an extensive library of reviews garnered from several gaming magazines. Check out gaming magazines at your local library. (Pick out some children’s books to read together while you’re there.)

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