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Development Topics
Parenting the Strong-Willed Child
Prayer for a Strong-Willed Child
When parents bring one of these tough youngsters into the world, they need to
recognize that while raising that child may be difficult for a time, it is worth
their effort to do the job right. Their attitude should be, “The Lord gave
me this challenging child for a purpose. He wants me to mold and shape this youngster
and prepare him or her for a life of service to Him. And I’m up to the task.
I’m going to make it with the Lord’s help.” That’s the
healthy way of looking at parenting when the pressure is on.
I am convinced that there is no other true source of confidence in parenting.
There is not enough knowledge in the books, mine or anyone else’s, to
counteract the evil that surrounds our kids today. We must bathe them in fervent
prayer when we are in our prayer closet, saying words similar to these:
“Lord, You know my inadequacies. You know my weaknesses, not only in
parenting, but in every area of my life. I’m doing the best I can to
raise my kids properly, but it may not be good enough. As You provided the
fish and the loaves to feed the five thousand hungry people, now take my meager
effort and use it to bless my family. Make up for the things I do wrong. Satisfy
the needs that I have not met. Compensate for my blunders and mistakes. Wrap
Your great arms around my children, and draw them close to You. And be there
when they stand at the great crossroads between right and wrong. All I can
give them is my best, and I will continue to do that. I submit them to You
now and rededicate myself to the task You have placed before me. The outcome
rests securely in Your hands.”
I’ve found that God is faithful, as a loving Father, to hear and answer
that cry of the heart. Turn to Him for solace when you’ve reached the
end of your rope. He will be there to comfort you and work within the soul of
your beloved child.
— James C. Dobson
Adapted from The
New Strong-Willed Child by Dr. James C. Dobson.
Copyright © 2004, Tyndale House Pubishers. All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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