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Talking About Sex and Sexuality to Your Adolescent

Continuing the Discussion

Your child’s adolescence is a time for you to communicate essential points about sex that go far beyond the technical. In these years you will have the privilege and responsibility of emphasizing the wonderful news about sexuality.

  • God designed sex to bring new life into existence, to generate a powerful bond between a husband and wife and to be intensely pleasurable.
  • It is a wonderful, extraordinary and powerful gift that deserves to be treated with great and abiding respect.
  • In the context of a permanent and public commitment, it can be savored, explored and nurtured without guilt or fear of serious consequences.
  • But at the wrong time with the wrong person, sex can bring disappointment, disease and derailed life plans and purposes.

Your adolescent, who is curious about and highly interested in sex, needs a clearheaded understanding of its benefits and risks in order to make a serious commitment to remain sexually pure until marriage. Maintaining such a commitment won’t always be easy.

Last updated: May 2005

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On This Topic
• Introduction
• Preparing for Puberty
• Continuing the Discussion
• It's Hard to Resist
• Reasons to Resist
• What Leads to Sex
• Preventing Sex
• The Role of Identity
• Unhealthy Relationships
• Pointers for Parents


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