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Understanding Your Child’s Physical Development

The Good and the Bad of Organized Sports

Organized sports can be a positive way for children to expend physical energy. However, there can also be a negative side to team games.

The Good

• Kids get physical exercise and develop strength and coordination.
• Kids learn lessons on healthy competition.
• Self-esteem increases when kids feel good about their performance.
• Kids learn how to work as a team and build friendships.
• Coaches can act as positive adult role-models.

The Bad

• Parents and coaches can focus too much on winning.
• Kids may base self-esteem on whether they win or lose.
• Physical injuries can occur.
• Kids can become distracted in school if overinvolved in sports.
• Kids may have no time for other activities if overinvolved.

What’s a Parent to Do?

• Let your child choose which activity he will participate in.
• Let your child choose when he will stop participating in a particular sport.
• Allow your child to participate in only one sport at a time.
• Praise your child for a job well-done whether he wins or loses.
• Evaluate the coach. Does he put too much pressure on the kids? Is he a good role model?

— Veola Vazquez

Last updated: May 2005

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